27 Men Reveal What Makes A Woman ‘Wife Material’ | Thought Catalog
I have attended these games, and it's a fun way to meet new people. .. If you can find that quality wife material still in the West I think it is at a traditional church. I don't think there is no set place you can meet wifey material girls they can be anywhere really. Its just a matter of getting lucky I guess but try. Want him to see you as wife material so that he will propose and you can live your happily It could be that you're kind to everyone you meet.
The ages of are the wild years but after the 30 year mark men will tend to settle down.
How to Pick the Right Wife - Bold and Determined
Most men under 30 years of age aren't mature enough to make the best decision about who to spend their life with. Now remember, 30 years old is the starting age to think of marriage. That doesn't mean you should get married at 30 or by Anytime between is a good time to tie the knot. Between the ages of is when a man's marriage value is at its highest. We have spoken about the need for a good woman here. In the following section we will look at how to determine good women from bad women.
The top 12 rules for picking the right wife to maximize a happy life and minimize the chance of divorce… 1 She should be young. A woman's body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it goes downhill fast. At around the age of 31 a woman's beauty really declines fast. It's a tradeoff, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years. Women do not age well.
Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years having a lot of random sex and now they want to find a sucker who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years.
Don't be that sucker. A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don't have healthy children.
At 30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime. But I like talking to smart women. Her IQ won't grow much with age. A dumb 20 year old is a dumb 30 year old. The difference is that the 30 year old dumb woman is a lot more bitter and has a whole lot less to offer. No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes cannot be healthy.
A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife. Women who grew up with divorce have too much baggage, use sluttery as a way to get attention from daddy, and will not know how to act in a proper family setting.
Throw her back in the water and go fishing some more. To make a marriage work, both the man and wife must think of divorce as no option at all. Every woman will gain a few pounds when they settle with a man. What is unacceptable is a woman blowing up to whale proportions. If a woman was once very fat, lost the weight on crash diets and ultra-gym sessions, that weight will ALL come back plus more when she gets married.
If she has to constantly diet and go to the gym she is about to blow up like a balloon when the ring is on her finger and the vows are spoken. You must pick the natural body type you like. That means she must have the same body type her whole life, never yo-yo'ing up or down in weight. She should have a pretty face. When her body goes the only thing that will be left is her face and you will have to see it every single day.
A woman who gets pig-fat after marriage is a disgrace to herself and her family. She must be aware of her image and keep her body trim for you. Women will always gain a few pounds after marriage, but there is a difference between a few pounds and one hundred pounds.
Take a look at all the women in her family, if they are all pig-fat it's a good idea to walk away as fast as you can. You will have to see your wife daily, you don't want to be thinking about skinning some bacon off of her back to cook breakfast. This is going to be the mother of your children and the keeper of your house. An Ass-kicker doesn't need two incomes, he can provide, what he needs is a keeper of home and heart.
Two income households leave the raising of their children to expensive day cares and schools, and then mommy goes to work so they can afford to pay for day care and babysitters. I don't want children. The only reason to get married is to have a family. But I want a career woman. Doesn't matter, even if she is a career woman when you meet she will not be when she is older. No woman wants to work but it takes some of them a long time to figure that out.
How many 45 year old married female lawyers or other professionals do you know? The women who work in middle age do so because they have no choice and they whine about it every day of their life. They would give anything to leave their jobs and take care of their family instead.
No woman truly wants to work. Work is a man's world and always will be. A woman's work should be in the home taking care of the home and children. She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a sordid past, and she cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking. You cannot turn a whore into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce. Are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are sluts?
The fewer sexual partners your wife has had, the better. The ideal wife should be a virgin. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely you are to be divorced in about 6 years and lose most of your money, possessions, and your children. Once in awhile or always; she will wash her boyfriend's clothes. She will scrub the veranda, change the curtains and do all the donkey work in a man's house. She ought to buy cutlery which she smugglers in a man's house. Ability to stay with a broke man.
All wife material tolerates broke boyfriends. They don't care that their men won't buy them expensive gifts or take them down to the coast for a weekend. In fact, some give their boyfriends money, feed them and believe that all will be well in the future.
True to their faith, these men make it. They live a life of luxury and marital bliss thereafter. The girls who rejected broke men keep jumping from one sponsor to another. This is why men cheat the most in relationships 6.
This quality runs across them. She should follow all the orders, rules and regulations laid down by the man without any haa! She should be caught dead arguing with her boyfriend or husband. Should be in good terms with in laws. A good wife respects and shows unconditional love to her in laws. She loves her mother in law and sister in law as her family. She never argues or carries grudges no matter what happens. All in laws love her in turn.
A woman I can argue with, without it turning into a fight. Then again, I may just have a thing for hot-tempered girls. She loves what she does, she cares about herself as much as she cares about me, and she smiles a lot. A woman who shares my values. You have to have values that have some intersection. Looks, health, wealth, all changes, but of those values seem to remain the most over a longer period of time. So, the hottest woman in the world, but hates to learn and read?
A woman who can be my best friend. A genuinely kindhearted woman. There was only a single thing on that list I would never overlook. A genuinely kindhearted person. A woman who makes good decisions and is honest. Does she make good decisions? Could I trust her choices if I were somehow incapacitated?
Does she honor the spirit of things even if the letter of the law would allow her additional advantage? Do we have common values? This goes back to how we will address all those inevitable conflicts that no one sees coming. When she is hurt, does she look to hurt back? Does she pivot to cutting arguments tangential to the disagreement because the power of the hit is likely to end the convo her way? Are old, settled, unrelated slights brought back up in recent disagreements? How crazy is her family?
If they are a part of her life, they will be a part of our life.
44 Things That Go Through Your Mind When You Meet “Wife Material”
I always push myself to do the same. We can sit in the same room for hours doing completely different things and be at complete peace. We can make plans, break plans, have discussions about our relationship, and just about everything else without getting worked up. This was most important for me—find someone who you can enjoy and work through things with you while keeping a level head. Now of course we argue, but when we do we reach a point where we realize this is totally unproductive, and agree to talk about it tomorrow.
Find someone who cares about you and is able to assertively approach an issue without being melodramatic. A woman who genuinely loves me for who I am. Like seriously, everything else is a Fucking-A bonus for what I care.